ENCOURAGING YOU!!!: Never Too Late To Start Over

To be honest, last week was probably not THE roughest in my marriage but it was the most enlightening one. Hubby and I had a disagreement caused by my neglect of him while thinking of my own selfish wants. The next day, mentally I finally went back to day one, when I first met Hubby. I remembered how I physically mentally and spiritually felt about him that first day, that first week, those first few months and realized that not only did I not fully feel that way toward him now (I never stopped loving him) but that desire for closeness was barely there. I thought over how I had changed over the years and realized that I used to be a much more positive person when I met Hubby. I used to be nicer, sweeter, more courteous, more pleasant to just be around. I’m still that way but in spurts. I know when to be polite in a professional setting but at home, where I feel I can be myself, I don’t watch what I say and how I say it yet I’ll get offended when I’m treated in the same manner. Hubby is not always the most positive person and with me being an emotional chameleon, I latched on to his negativity. The problem with that is that I HOLD negativity whereas eventually Hubby lets it go. Me of all people who lives by the Golden Rule wasn’t seeing that I was getting what I “asked for”. Simple common courtesy goes a long way and when I was more conscious of the fact that Hubby was still the last person I treated respectfully (when in fact he should be one of the FIRST), I immediately snapped back to the good ol’ Lea. He hasn’t mentioned it but I’m sure Hubby has noticed this past week that I’m nicer toward him, trying to help him stay calm, motivated and positive which is making him soften. He’s probably not even aware of how harsh he speaks AT me (not TO but AT me). One thing I can say is that Hubby is truly a man of his word. The least I can do is be a woman of my own word. He needs his wife 100% of the time, not just when I feel like it. I know I’ll be fine if I were single but I wouldn’t be any happier without my Husband. We’re celebrating our 7th wedding anniversary in June. Between now and then, I’ll be writing love notes for him to read on our anniversary where hopefully we’ll be in a memorable setting for him to see that I still love him just as much as he loves me.

PeaceLoveHappiness
Lm…

*I will always refer to him as “Hubby” to protect his privacy. Don’t get it twisted: he is not a boyfriend or side piece. He is my HUSBAND.

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About Author Lea Mishell

Wife. Author. Mother. As far as the order... that depends on my mood! LOL Silly, sarcastic, sensitive soul that wants nothing more than to get these thoughts out of my head to share with the world! Let me tell you about myself in as few words as possible... I am an intelligent, athletically-built-without-doin-a-lick-of-exercise, sweet, independent young woman. I like to eat. Sometimes I drink. Often times I even sleep! And then in between all of that, I'll need to go visit the bathroom. Most of the time I do all of those, practically everyday! And sometimes I do things with other people. I used to go to school, but now I work. My favorite colors are black, silver, burgandy, and deep blue... My hobbies and interests include writing, traveling, spending time with my family, hanging with my friends, watching anything with Shemar Moore in it (formerly "Derrick Morgan" on "Criminal Minds", formerly "Malcolm Winters" on "The Young and The Restless", and star of "The Brothers" and "Butter"), dancing, singing, and people-watching. I LOVE JANET (Jackson for those that don't know). That's just the tip of the iceberg, but if you REALLY want to know me, write me and get to know me! PeaceLoveHappiness Lm...

Posted on May 24, 2016, in Blogging, Lea Mishell, love, marriage, My Therapy, Real Life Issues and tagged , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.

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